i've given a fair amount of thought to perspective lately. there isn't anything, for me, that can't be managed with an adjustment of perception. where was your head when it happened? if you give it one moment's consideration, where was the person's head that was involved? are you overreacting? how seriously does any of it really affect your day to day? what's fucked as a result? Nothing? Then fucking move on. Even if everything is fucked, why would you want to stay in that moment? I have a great difficulty understanding the dwell of things. It already happened. It's done. Why not move past it? Why not grow? I also don't understand why you'd make the complaint without making the attempt at resolution. Did you just want to say it? Do you want sympathy for your inconvenience? I carry a lot. I will always listen. I will always be honest, my filters don't work well and I will probably say the wrong thing, but it's who I am. I will tell you why I think this way and I will keep your secrets safe. I will always have your back. I care deeply for those close to me. We live one life at a time. We exist in one timeline. This is all we have, right now. Shouldn't it be the best it can be? Every moment is precious. I don't care what you think of me. I don't care what he thinks of me. I don't care what she thinks, either. Once upon a time, I did. "I no longer have the patience for certain things". It's the perfect summation.